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MY 2KOBO OPINION ON (NIGERIAN) LADIES PROPOSING TO A MAN

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First of all, before you ever let yourself get carried away by ‘love’ and the modern trend of ‘women too should be able to propose’ you must first come to terms with the fact that we are Africans, and the current crop of eligible bachelors have not been weaned off patriarchy. Our age grade grew up being fed with ‘be the man’ mantras and we are still patriarchal, even though we profess gender equality and liberalism on our lips. The honest truth is that the average Nigerian (young) man that is between the ages of 18 to 40 is still largely patriarchal to varying degrees. Now, to the proposing itself, if you must do it: Be 101 % sure of the man’s quest in your garden – that what he wants from you is MARRIAGE, not just a relationship. Sadly bur true, many guys are just in for the sex and saying the sweet things to keep the window open.  Be 101 % sure that he is financially ready to marry you – even your attempt at marrying him with your money can cause a man to panic and feel ema